A Girl Named Sonia

Saturday, April 01, 2006

Free Handwriting Analysis


The test is fun and interesting. I tried it myself and here are my results.

Sonia's Handwriting Analysis:

Sonia has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people. (So right)

Something is incomplete in Sonia's life. She feels frustration relating to her physical needs and desires. Somewhere in her life there is some disappointment, non-fulfillment, and interruption. . . (So right)

Sonia is a practical person whose goals are planned, practical, and down to earth. This is typical of people with normal healthy self-esteem. She needs to visualize the end of a project before she starts. she finds joy in anticipation and planning. Notice that I said she plans everything she is going to do, that doesn't necessarily mean things go as planned. Sonia basically feels good about herself. She has a positive self-esteem which contributes to her success. She feels she has the ability to achieve anything she sets her mind to. However, she sets her goals using practicality-- not too "out of reach". She has enough self-confidence to leave a bad situation, yet, she will not take great risks, as they relate to her goals. A good esteem is one key to a happy life. Although there is room for improvement in the confidence catagery, her self-perception is better than average. (Sometimes this is right, but at this time my self-esteem and confidence are very low.)

In reference to Sonia's mental abilities, she has a very investigating and creating mind. She investigates projects rapidly because she is curious about many things. She gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but she soon must slow down and look at all the angles. She probably gets too many things going at once. When Sonia slows down, then she becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, she must slow down to do it. She then decides what projects she has time to finish. Thus she finishes at a slower pace than when she started the project. She has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. Her mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. She can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. Sonia can then switch into her low gear. When she is in the slower mode, she can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. She is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip. (Right. As a child I was very inquisitive and as an adult I am very logical.)

Sonia is secretive. She has secrets which she does not wish to share with others. She intentionally conceals things about herself. She has a private side that she intends to keep that way, especially concerning certain events in her past. (Not really right. As a child I used to trust everyone, but now it is more difficult for me to give my complete trust to anyone unless I know them well enough to feel safe, or unless they first open up to me. But I am still very open and usually have no problem sharing a lot of things about myself and my past with others, in an attempt to help them get to know me and understand me better, and to find something in common with the other person.)

Sonia is sensitive to criticism about her ideas and philosophies. She will sometimes worry what people will think if she tells them what she believes in. This doesn't mean she won't talk, or that she feels ashamed. It merely means she is sensitive to what others think, regarding her beliefs. (Right)

Sonia is moderately outgoing. Her emotions are stirred by sympathy and heart rendering stories. In fact, she can be kind, friendly, affectionate and considerate of others. (I also feel empathy for others.) She has the ability to put herself into the other person's shoes. (So right) Sonia will be somewhat moody, with highs and lows. Sometimes she will be happy, the next day she might be sad. She has the unique ability to get along equally well with what psychology calls introverts and extroverts. This is because she is in between. Psychology calls Sonia an ambivert. (Cool, I finally have a name to describe my personality.) She understands the needs of both types. Although they get along, she will not tolerate anyone that is too "far out." She doesn't sway too far one way or the other. When convincing her to buy a product or an idea, a heart rendering story could mean a great deal to her. She puts herself in the same situation as the person in the story, yet she will not buy anything that seems overly impractical or illogical. Sonia is an expressive person. She outwardly shows her emotions. (I used to when I was much younger.) She may even show traces of tears when hearing a sad story. Sonia is a "middle-of-the-roader," politically as well as logically. She weighs both sides of an issue, sits on the fence, and then will decide when she finally has to. She basically doesn't relate to any far out ideas and usually won't go to the extreme on any issue. (So right)

People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially. According to the data input, Sonia doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others. (Right)

It is not 100% accurate, but worth trying anyway.

I related to a lot of things in other people's analysis. I think these things can also be said about me:
She is constantly disappointed when trying to reach success. She works very hard, perhaps harder than most, then just before succeeding, something happens that keeps her from success. Often, she changes to a second project just before the first one is finished, thus failing to complete the first project. Sometimes she changes because she feels she needs a different challenge. She feels dejected and has feeling of failure.

She has many dreams that will be difficult to make happen. (THis is mostly because of procrastination and fear of failure.) Her plans can be extremely successful only if she sees them through.

She enjoys talking and socializing. (Especially with good friends that care about me.)

She has difficulty making decisions. Her mind changes constantly. She lives in an emotional tug of war. She could be described like a thermometer. Today warm and friendly, yet tomorrow she may be distant and cold, not wanting to be close to anyone . If she encounters a situation she cannot handle she frequently pulls into herself. She feels her emotions are secure if she is withdrawn. When she has solved the problem she can be outgoing and again need other people's companionship.

She has an unresolved "issue" with strong members of the opposite gender. An occasional appearance of this stroke could indicate a simple "loves a mental challenge" which can manifest in playful linguistic conversations and being attracted to a lover who isn't always available. However, if the stroke is severe, this means the individual has unresolved anger at the oppostive gender - which usually started with the person's childhood relationship with the opposite gender parent (Mom or Dad).

Her true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told her that she wasn't a great and beautiful person, and she believed them. She also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. She doesn't have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. She is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem. Her self-concept is artificially low. It is hard for her to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. She may tell you her dreams but she is living in today, with a fear of making a change. She is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. She is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.

She is very level-headed and will remain calm in an emergency situation. In a situation where other people might get hysterical, she has poise. She will not be taken in by an emotional story about someone else. She will meet emergencies without getting hysterical.

She is withdrawn into herself and enjoys being alone. She will work more efficiently if given space and time to be alone. She would rather not be surrounded by people constantly. (I'm afraid of being judge or scrutinized.)

She is candid and direct when expressing her opinion. She will tell them what she thinks if they ask for it, whether they like it or not. So, if they don't really want her opinion, don't ask for it! (I can be too honest sometimes, but I try to be tactful.)

She will demand respect and will expect others to treat her with honor and dignity. River believes in her ideas and will expect other people to also respect them. (I try to treat others with respect, the way I want to be treated.)

Numbing/Dissociation - A defense mechanism when she doesn't understand how to handle a stressful situation. (I added this last one)

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